I’m Offended, What Should I Do?

What are we to do with conflict or disagreement?  James 4:11 says this, “Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge.”

We are called as Christians not to speak evil against one another.  This means that gossiping, sharing information, and harsh tones should not be seen in the members of the church.  But what should we do instead?  If someone is in sin or wrongs us are we supposed to simply not speak evil against them and let them continue in sin?  By no means!  Praise the Lord Galatians 6:1 says this, “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness.”  How amazing is that!?  We don’t have to speak bad things of our brothers in Christ, instead we come along side them and show them their fault, helping them grow out of it into Christ.

This clear biblical model is laid out in Matthew 18:15, Galatians 6, Hebrews 3:12-13, Hebrews 10:24-25 and elsewhere and it brings much glory to God when it is followed.  If you need help with this, come to me and I will try to lead you in a biblical direction.  I thank each of you who have responded to the Sunday school lesson from last week and have lived this out, Praise God for his work in your life.  Let us continue in this together.